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You're a great artist and I know this really has nothing to do with your blog, but did you go to school to be an artist? Do you plan on making a career out of it?

Thanks! Nah, I studied dance in college, but snuck into a few art classes along the way. I would love to make a career out of comics and art some day. It’s a dream to get paid for something I love to do anyway.

forever running behind

forever running behind

mymilkweed:

Reminder reminder: the Smut Peddler Kickstarter has just about ONE DAY (27 hours as I type this!!) for you to get in an’ get your sweet artist-supporting, mostly-lady-made pornographic comics! Here’s the first four pages from my *sixteen page* story I dropped, titled Fixer Upper. If you wanna see the rest, you’ve got to buy the book… so get on it already!

Here’s some sexy to tide you over while I work on tomorrow’s comic. You don’t have much time left to back the Smut Peddler kickstarter! Pupcake is also doing a commission sale, so if you like her work you can find out more here.

Pin-up of the month: clothes I wish I owned but do not, because I only wear black for some unfathomable reason

Pin-up of the month: clothes I wish I owned but do not, because I only wear black for some unfathomable reason

Sorry! It was kind of hard to ask without all the loading. I really was just looking for other opinions.
Anonymous

If this is the anon with questions about rape fantasy: that’s fine! My personal opinion boils down to: if everyone involved is open, healthy and consensual then kudos to you! It’s in my personal bag of kink so I know how scary it can be to talk to a partner about it, much less the big wide internet.

And as long as I’m addressing anons: to the person who asked the #TMI question about poly, I think that’d be better addressed as a weekly ask comic. So I’ll put you in the roster. <3

What's your opinion on Rape fantasy?
Anonymous

This is a really, really loaded question. I don’t want to go too in-depth, but a trigger warning for everyone, and of course this is my *personal* opinion based on *personal* experiences…

***Real rape is NEVER okay. Never never never. Under any circumstances.***

Rape fantasy is taboo because, well, duh. But you can’t force someone not to fantasize about something. You cannot literally crawl up into their brain and erase an urge or impulse! We’re not living in a sci-fi dystopia. And people have all kinds of unexpected “crazy” fetishes. When it’s based on something non-consensual, however, I believe the person with the fetish should educate themselves enough to separate fantasy from reality, and realize why they think said activity is so hot.

Once the person can look at their fetish objectively, I think it’s possible for some people to approach these taboo sexual topics in a healthy way with a consensual, communicative partner. I say “some,” because many of the people who say that they are totally knowledgeable are probably lying to themselves in order to get closer to their fantasy. In all of my time with my local kink scene, about 2% of people who list “rape” as a fetish are the ones I would trust my health and well-being in the hands of.

does that mean you like it in the butt?
Anonymous

No, we already went over this, I’m purely into peanut butter

How was your first anal experience?

Greasy.

What would be your ideal kinky night?

Peanut butter. Nothing but ten Costco flats of chunky peanut butter.

(But in all seriousness, I don’t have an “ultimate fantasy”! I prefer to focus on the connection with my partner and all the fun kinky shit we can do to electrify it, and I know Adam feels the same.)

#TMI What's the oddest thing you've thought during sex?
Anonymous

“Did I feed the fish? I should call my mom. What’s the name of that coffee an animal poops that’s really expensive? Are there other kinds of edible poop? I hope I did my taxes right. What’s that smell? Is something burning?” etc etc on into infinity